我前两天在阿姨帮这个app上请了一个阿姨帮我收拾屋子,我怕阿姨帮我收拾屋子无聊,我就陪她聊天,得知阿姨已经儿女双全,在告诉她我是丁克之后,她给我抛下了一句话“你老了之后谁管你啊”。我没有回答她,因为搞定这个问题算是丁克的准入门槛了好么?我肯定是拿着我的积蓄去住日本或者台湾的养老院啊,如果还有钱剩下,我要把剩下的钱捐给流浪动物保护组织。但是我没有对阿姨讲,因为她能问出来“老了之后谁管你”这个段位的问题,我就知道我和她好像是两个星球的人。在我们“丁克”星球上的人还住着一个作家叫唐缺(写过《九州》),他在知乎上回答过一个问题“请说说你要或者不要小孩的原因”, 唐缺的答案特别简洁:
1. 单纯讨厌小孩,全年龄段讨厌
2. 觉得“养儿防老”这个概念本身就很自私,抵制
我特别想补充一下他这个答案,我想说的角度是“什么样的人适合要小孩”, 当你感觉我会爱这个孩子,就像爱祖国,爱大自然,我不求什么回报,只希望能在他的成长历程中陪他走一段路。什么时候我觉得我有这样的感受了,我就要一个孩子。现在有么?没有
Once upon a time, there were two monkeys, they loved each other very much, but there were something missing, they wanted a baby, and they heard there was a very special baby in the far away land who needed a family. She was a panda named Lily. One of the monkeys was scared, they've never had a panda before, but they held Lily in their arms, and the scared monkey became the brave one. And the two monkeys, Coco and Miko, they travelled all the way home with the perfect pan
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